Stupid Heart!!!

How successfully we consider that , now we are adult everything is under control. But , little did we know that as we grow up we give maximum control into the veins and arteries of our hearts (i salute those people who use their brains ....i mean how ??? 😵 ) .


There comes times in every body's life when they experience those violins being played in the background, wind just brushing their hair and all people around become background dancers out of nowhere. Yeah, it is the time, when one gets to know that this is that one person "jo palat ke mujhe dekhega/dekhegi" ( ddlj refrence  😎) . One glimpse of that person and damn it blows your mind away. Raising my hands up cause yeah people i am normal and watch bollywood.


Then there comes the phase when you are totally into that person. One call and even if you are in between the favorite part of your dream ( might differ as per gender) , you pick it up just after  a ring and talk hours thinking just a few minutes passed. *blushing* I like the long talks and maybe everyone does  cause we just want to know every tiny little thing about that person and memorize it like tomorrow is our exam. That care, being selfless , efforts that are seen , makes you literally at seventh heaven.


Now welcome the comfortable but  'oh you were not like this' phase. The couple post  "goals pictures" and yeah they look perfect but inside there are things heating up. These two people were completely fine but now because of new found compatibility there is strange numbness between them. Now the promises of "your past wont bother me" forget their existence and "you prefer others over me" comes to mind. Everybody ,except them, knows the fact that they both are two perfect souls. One would think weird things and the other would cry to sleep thinking the relation is not working out ( i hope you can assign the gender according to your story).  This is where the real relationship starts, where compromises and understandings are tested, where love is tested.Couples who conquer these situations are destined to be together till the end and they represent lifetime goals.

Rest every relationship is unique in it's own way. Stay happy people find your phase and please make your relation a lifetime one! 

Your Emotions.....you control!

There are times in one's life, where you find your hormones dancing more than required. Well it's time to stop their party music and take control over yourself. When you are feeling emotional, the last thing you can do is calm down.
                                                   When you are upset , you are most vulnerable 
                                                    and that is when people take opportunity to 
                                                    take you down.
There are certain do's  and don'ts when you are going through a hard time controlling your emotions.

DO's and Don'ts

When these tiny hormones are making you crazy, provoking you to act aggressively, making you wanna scream, just give a thought is it the right time?
At this very moment you are so weak that you utter your all past, present, future to a person who just asked you whether you have done the assignment or not!!    CRAZY..right but that's how it is.

Advise for such situation , keep mum. Don't talk much other than the topic.If you find it difficult to handle yourself, hire your best friends( what are they for ;) ). Tell them to monitor you.

Other things that happen when you go off guard is overthinking. It is nothing but intentionally feeding yourself nutella full of tensions, sweet and poisonous.

Advise for such situations, hire best friend and share your situation. Nothing can be solved when you and your retard friend make a team. That one person who can sense you will not let you go into weird thought world.

Also during this  period, you are literally go off track and the worst thing in your hand is your cell phone. Never text or call during this period. Your never know what you may put yourself into. Texting or calling anybody during this time is equivalent to drunk calling and texting, trust me you don't wanna do that.

Advise for this, i know it's pretty hard for you to leave your most precious phone, but just cut off it's data connection and plug in some music. It is the best remedy for a mind full of hormonal imbalance.


Things proven beneficial for such times-

• Take your time off. Common you need a break relax yourself. Go on a walk, take fresh air, breathe and think .
• Shut down your phone for good. It will only increase your stress level. 
• Consult your mom, the best therapist you can get. Apart from that tell your monkey friends about your pain. Sure they would be ready for rescue.

Body Secrets......unveiled

If you have a toothache, rub some ice on the webbed area between your thumb and index finger. By numbing your hand, the intensity of your pain will be reduced.

If you're stressing too much over an important test or exam, take a pen and paper and write down your feelings. A study suggests those who jot down their emotions before an exam get higher scores.

If you go to sleep after a big hearty meal, be sure to lie on your left side. Sleeping on your right side places your stomach in a higher position than your food-pipe, enabling food and stomach acid to go to your throat.

If you are in a bad mood, put a pencil in your mouth. It will activate the muscles you use when smiling, which will trick your brain into boosting your mood.

If you suffer from motion sickness or nausea, try pressing and holding the spot between the two tendons on the inside of your wrist. Or grandma method- put coin in your mouth(works for me :D )

     

Forgot glasses? ..for temporary vision, curl your hand into a fist and look through the tiny hole as a telescope. This trick allows for a narrow beam of light to reach the retina and increases depth of field and focus.

There are dozens of “guaranteed” remedies for hiccups. Nevertheless, studies suggest that increasing the level of CO2 in your bloodstream is the key. So, breathing into a plastic bag for about 30 seconds is an almost sure way of getting rid of those annoying hiccups.

Some relate-able facts...some hacks...some new beginnings!

Some healthy hostel habits to ponder upon!!!

1)THE WALL- Staring at the dull white/yellow/creamy walls make me wanna go out of the room and never return. I mean seriously..thanks for the prison world. But yeah it's a hostel so there is not much we can do about the wall color but we get to decide what to put up on them. So go ahead guys put your favorite pictures up there that makes you smile every time you look at them. Do some origami and put it up those dull things.Doing things like this gives refreshment and a satisfied environment.

2) STUDY TABLE- Guys, ever been through cleaning your study table everyday and then realizing that  no matter what it's gonna get messed up again like some sorcery. Well the hack is... never keep the table where you can approach it with ease. So the next time you want to keep anything on the table you'll have to get up and then you will tend to keep the thing in its original place instead . That simple! :D

3) THE CHAIR- As hostelers, we have great respect for THE CHAIR as it is the main thing in room (after bed). Used as a place to cook ,  keep clothes(cause sometimes we love to display our possessions) and a rotating ride. But lets just use it the way it was supposed to be? Try to avoid throwing you clothes and anything at them, they too have feelings (lol). The same tip applies here, keep the chair far away so as to avoid being a lazy ass and keep things on it.Also it looks great when used with the study table. ;)

4) THE BED- Finally reached where everything actually ends , the BED. I know guys the relation between you and your bed is intimate, and it should be, but do you have any idea  what you make your bed go through? Use it as  dance floor, as dinning table, study table, cooking shelf, and much more. Guys pamper your bed , it makes you forget the pain after all. Things you can do for your bed are ..changing the sheets every 10-15 days. Have a habit of removing wrinkles from your sheet. After spreading the sheet put safety pins to secure it to the mattress for a wrinkle free surface.Give your "blanky" some vitamin d once in a while.

Maa told so! .... vastu things that literally affect your life !!!!!

Things our generation think are useless but the truth is they are actually true. Yes people just give them a try and you shall definitely notice a change..(seen it myself) :-


1) SLEEP POSITION-  Since i am currently a student , would say this topic in that context but hey we all are students in all stages of life so apply it for sure. NEVER  sleep with your head in the North direction (extremely dangerous) as it has to do something with the magnetic field of the which make your nerve cells go crazy causing you an inconvenient  nap.For students it is advisable to sleep with their head in EAST direction for better grasping and concentration(we definitely need them). South and West are normal for sleeping.
(ps - hostel students , i know it's hard to change the position of beds in small rooms but do it )

2) STUDY POSITION- Again we all are learners and hence whenever we are into learning process it is advisable to face NORTH or EAST. It increases the ability to think and create wonders.

3) THE LIGHT- It is very important for us to receive the morning rays , contains high amount of vitamin d and freshness. Open the windows and doors completely for sometime to let in the fresh air and light so as you wont feel sleepy and do something productive.

4) CLEANLINESS- As teens we are not supposed to keep our room clean. Its ok to mess up your room just keep the study table clean. Yes people just the table and rest will be taken care of. ;)

Curly hair #heatless

Well i have sort of straight hair and there are times i am in desperate need of super sexy curls. Here are some tips to have gorgeous heat-less curls overnight ( every good thing takes time) :P

•  Damp your hair (not water drooling damp) and if you have washed your hair, let it come to a state where its not too dry and not too wet.

•  Take thin sections of hair .. and roll them into cute little buns. Tie a rubber band to secure the bun.

• Do this for all remaining sections and have a sweet beauty nap.

• Wake up to a gorgeous new look. 

Think you are loosing friends?? Trust me u are NOT!!!

There are times in life when you are forced to think ..... is there anybody who would love me ? Trust me guys ...every one has been there...EVERYONE!. And its totally normal and definitely necessary as this is the only way you get to know who your real friends are.
                                            
Think of it this way ..  you wont be able to buy a new phone which is all sexy and ready to be your  pal until  you let go of the old one.  Here some people would say OLD is GOLD. trust me guys no way this is true(except in case of music) . The old  pals get settled at new places making new friends and definitely message you just on your Birthdays. How cool is that? :/

Yeah some friends STICK on like hot glue and if you've got some, you have heaven. Other than that ..the friends you make at college are probably going to last forever, as you see, you have literally been in sort of "live in " type of relationship with them. 



And yeah if you probably think you have less friends..you are hell wrong. Small and compact group make the perfect family away from home <3